I don't doubt for a second though he will love a potential son to the ends of the universe as well. My hubby is rooting for a girl too, and already is talking about what they'll do when she's older - and I fear he may go through the same feelings (he's got me hoping for one too as he is so cute with his daughter-dreams). So allow yourself time and don't let anyone make you feel bad for feeling that way. It's natural to grieve the loss of the girl you thought was growing, and that doesn't diminish the joy and excitement for a boy (or vice versa). And whatever it is - you'll love it to pieces. It's too bad that you'll have to pay but it should give you confirmation and peace of mind. If it's important to you - and it seems to be - go in for a gender scan. I know what you mean about having a feeling which sex the baby is, with DS1 I was convinced he was a boy and of course he was but my pregnancy was different with DS2, he was a quieter, calmer baby. I personally don't know anyone who was told a boy and it ended up being a girl. The sonographer told us that she was not allowed to say he was definately a boy as they can be wrong but then proceeded to show us all his boy bits. So I've known a few ladies who were told they were having a girl only to find out at birth it was a boy (the tech missed the boy parts). The determination isn't so much boy-vs-girl as 'visible boy parts'-vs-'lack of visual boy parts'. They do happen but it's more common the other way around.
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